It is with sadness that the passing of Valerie Elizabeth Buckner (Fairfax, Virginia) is shared. Valerie, born on November 9, 1988, passed away on September 7, 2026. Leave a sympathy message to the family on the memorial page of Valerie Elizabeth Buckner to pay them a last tribute.

Valerie will be remembered for the time spent with loved ones and the moments that brought joy to those around her. Friends and family will honor Valerie by reflecting on shared memories and the positive influence she had in their lives. Though Valerie is no longer present, the bonds she created and the experiences shared will endure. Valerie’s memory will continue to be a source of comfort for all who knew her.

She was loved and cherished by many people including: her husband Buddy Buckner; her parents, Micheal Vanidestine and Julie Vanidestine; her sister Allison Mannella; and her uncle David Newman.

In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to the Katherine Hanley Family Shelter in Fairfax County or any similarly situated organization focused on helping families facing domestic violence.

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September 24, 2026

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September 24, 2026

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“In loving memory of Valerie Elizabeth Buckner, Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts.”

September 24, 2026

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“My deepest condolences to the family. Val, you were such an amazing person. The world is a sadder place with you not with us. Miss you, my friend.”

September 22, 2026

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“I am so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family during this difficult time.”

September 12, 2026

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September 11, 2026

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September 11, 2026

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“In loving memory of Valerie Elizabeth Buckner, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.”

September 11, 2026

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Carolyn Holland lit a candle

“There are no words to express how sorry I am for your loss. Know that you and your little ones are loved and truly cared for. Holding you and your family in my thoughts, heart, and prayers.”

September 11, 2026

Valerie Webster lit a candle

“I met Valerie thru Christine Cookson. As my grandson attended the same preschool as her daughter. We had so much in common. Harold Newman and David Newman were neighbors of ours in Hampden, Me. Valerie and I shared the same first name and my granddaughter was Laila and Valerie's youngest daughter was a Laila too.!! We laughted over the similarities and connections. Please accept my heartfelt condolences on your unexpected loss. Sending positive thoughts and prayers.”

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