Shirley Cole Gary's obituary , Passed away on December 31, 2025 in Richmond, Virginia

Shirley Cole Gary

July 16, 1943 - December 31, 2025 (82 years old)

Richmond, Virginia

Shirley Cole Gary's obituary , Passed away on December 31, 2025 in Richmond, Virginia

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Shirley Cole Gary

July 16, 1943 - December 31, 2025 (82 years old)

Richmond, Virginia

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Shirley Cole Gary Obituary

We are sad to announce that, on December 31, 2025 we had to say goodbye to Shirley Cole Gary (Richmond, Virginia). You can send your sympathy in the guestbook provided and share it with the family. You may also light a candle in honor of Shirley Cole Gary or send a beautiful flower arrangement to the funeral service.

She was predeceased by: her parents, Johnny Cole and Blanche Wyche Cole; her brothers, John Jr., Bernard, James and Leroy Cole; her daughter Karen Wedington; her great grandchild Kenijah Moosi; and her sons-in-law, Irwin Dickerson and Earl T. Martin.

She is survived by: her sister Ethel Mae Basstte; her aunts, Dorthy Ellis and Ruth Wyche; her uncle Alexander "Tim" Wyche; her friend Earleen Flemming; her granddaughter Okesha Wedington; her children, Shelia Anderson, Lesa, Melvin Gary, Stanley Gary and Jamaal Taylor; her adoptive sons, Samuel Starke and Shawn Burchette; her children-in-law, Donelle Anderson and Valerie Gary; Martin. She is also survived by nine grandchildren; 11 great grandchildren; and a host of nieces, nephews and cousins.

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January 7, 2026

Family of Alexander & Estelle Cole wrote a sympathy message

“Condolences and prayers from the family of Alexander & Estelle Cole. We were saddened to hear of the loss of Shirley, cousin and friend. James Cole, Bettie Neverson, Ida Scott, Rosa Jones, Christopher Cole, and Diane Cole-Dillard.”


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2720 Enterprise Pkwy, Richmond, VA 23294

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