Barbara Jean Lavender-Goodman Obituary
With solemn hearts, we announce the passing of Barbara Jean Lavender-Goodman in Suffolk, Virginia, born in Birmingham, Alabama, whose presence will be deeply missed, having departed on December 25, 2025 at the age of 74. Family and friends are welcome to leave their condolences on this memorial page and share them with the family.
As Barbara departs from our midst, her spirit ascends to join the cosmic dance of stars, a shimmering constellation of memories that will forever grace the night sky of the hearts of those who loved Barbara. Though Barbara may no longer walk beside us, her legacy lives on — a testament to the enduring power of love to transcend the boundaries of time and space.
She was predeceased by: her husband Charles Goodman; her close friend Ronald G. Lavender; and her parents, N. V. Owen and Lula Mae Owen. She is survived by: her children, Ron Lavender and Tanika Lavender; and her siblings, Samuel Owen and Linda Johnson. She is also survived by her nine grandchildren, ten great-grandchildren, and numerous nieces, nephews.

January 2, 2026
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