Mary Barbara Gray's obituary , Passed away on March 11, 2026 in Appleton, Wisconsin

Mary Barbara Gray

December 8, 1946 - March 11, 2026 (79 years old)

Appleton, Wisconsin

Mary Barbara Gray's obituary , Passed away on March 11, 2026 in Appleton, Wisconsin

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Mary Barbara Gray

December 8, 1946 - March 11, 2026 (79 years old)

Appleton, Wisconsin

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Mary Barbara Gray Obituary

It is always difficult saying goodbye to someone we love and cherish. Family and friends must say goodbye to their beloved Mary Barbara Gray of Appleton, Wisconsin, who passed away at the age of 79, on March 11, 2026. Leave a sympathy message to the family in the guestbook on this memorial page of Mary Barbara Gray to show support.

She was predeceased by: her parents, Henry Hiftline and Lillian Hiftline; her brother Robert (Bob); her in-laws, Dale and Hedy Gray; and her brother-in-law Terry Kelly.

She is survived by: her husband Gary; her children, Timothy Gray (Lisa) of West Salem, Sarah Gomulkiewicz (Jason) of Menasha and Joseph Gray (Sarah) of Bonners Ferry, Idaho; her sister Nancy Kelly of Jasper; her brother-in-law Dennis Gray of Mukilteo, Washington; her niece Anne Kelly (Arizona) of Scottsdale; and her nephew Aaron Kelly (Angala) of Gilbert, Arizona..

In lieu of flowers, please send donations in memory of Mary Gray to Martin Luther College, or to the American Cancer Society (electronically or by mail).

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Mar 24

Visitation

Bethel Lutheran Church
829 Appleton Rd, Menasha, WI 54952

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Mar 24

Celebration of life

Bethel Lutheran Church
829 Appleton Rd, Menasha, WI 54952

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