Thomas L. Ruder Obituary

We are sad to announce that on October 3, 2025 we had to say goodbye to Thomas L. Ruder (Cedarburg, Wisconsin). Leave a sympathy message to the family in the guestbook on this memorial page of Thomas L. Ruder to show support.

As we bid farewell to this cherished soul, solace is taken in the memories held dear — the laughter shared, the wisdom imparted, the moments of quiet reflection in their presence. Though Thomas may no longer walk among us, his spirit lives on in the echoes of his kindness, the warmth of his embrace, and the light of his enduring love.

He was predeceased by: his parents, Philip N. Ruder and Barbara A. Ruder. He is survived by: his wife Cora; his children, Sam (Kari), Sarah Bechitsao, Colleen Barribeau (Andy), Glenda Ruder (Scott) and Polly Ruder; and his brothers, Donald Ruder (Josephine) and Paul Ruder (Ardyce). He is also survived by 8 grandchildren, nieces nephews, other relatives and friends.

Throughout his 15 year journey with Alzheimer's, he showed incredible courage, strength, grace and resilience.